I...hate Holden?

I've watched the entire series as it came out and loved it. I remeber finding Holden a a little annoying in the show but damn I'm at the end of Leviathan Wakes and I really can't stand him.

His self righteous attitude continues to make things worse through the solar system, starting two wars because he doesn't stop and think about what he's doing. And then he has the audacity to get mad at Miller for killing space Henrich Himmler.

I don't get it, am I missing something or does the author want me to hate him.

Edit: pitch forks down guys damn, hate may be a strong word. He's just pissing me off right now.