Advice from LGBT teachers

Hi! Wanted some advice on something

I am an elementary teacher (3rd grade) in a small town that is pretty conservative. I am lesbian and have been dating my girlfriend for 5 years, and started teaching at this school 4 years ago. I often have colleagues and students ask about my if I have a husband, boyfriend, or if I am married. I have always just responded with a simple “no”, as that is not a lie and I don’t want to face complaints from parents or admin.

However, I just got engaged to my girlfriend over break and did not wear my ring to school this past week because I was worried it would spark questions. Still, I have always hated having to hide this, as most teachers refer to their husbands and will mention their personal lives.

I want to be able to wear my ring. I know I will continue to get questions about if I am married and I don’t want to lie. What should I do?