I need some advice on a Taurus male

I don’t even know where to start tbh… I met this guy over a year ago through one of his friends (his friend was actually interested in me at that time). So his friend invited me to a doble date, where the other guy was the one that I’m interested in now. Everyone else at the double date kind of knew and got the impression that I wasn’t interested in the friend that invited me. But, on the double date, I kind of developed a little crush on the other guy, and it seemed like he also was a little interested in me. He called me through his friend’s Snapchat and got my snap (this happened last year). We hang out (in group settings) some times after this, but suddenly he just vanished from the face of the earth. I found out that the period he was gone he was actually in prison… (ik)

But fast forward… We picked up the contact again a little over a month ago. He started initiating more conversations and started calling me on face time. The only thing was that at this time, when we picked up the contact again, he was in another country. We pretty much talked on the phone almost every night, and he was talking about coming back home to the city we both live in. When we were talking on the phone, I got the impression that he was interested in me (at this time I wasn’t really sure if I was interested or not, but I enjoyed talking to him), he gave me many compliments and asked me what he needed to do to meet me when he came home. I started to enjoy talking to him more and more, and became interested in him. So when he came back home he asked me which day we could meet. I gave him a date, and we agreed on going out to eat that day. When the day came around, he suddenly became silent. I didn’t understand why he didn’t say anything about the date, so when the evening came I said something like “so we weren’t going to meet up today?”. And basically he said that he had had a very bad day because his friend ended up in the hospital because of something with his heart, and he had therefore been of his phone and took a break from his job and prayed the whole day. I felt bad for him of course, but I felt like he could at least have told me this earlier that day since we had planned to meet. After this incident we have only talked on the phone once (and that’s 2 weeks ago now). He hasn’t suggested another day to meet up either. Some days ago I made a comment about that we haven’t talked on the phone for a while, and then he said that he has pretty much just been going from meetings to meetings the last days, but I feel like if he really wanted to talk to me or meet me, he would have made time for this.

Also, I’ve fallen from his 1st place to his 4th place on his best friend list on Snapchat (ik this may seem irrelevant to some, but it’s an indicator of how much he talks to me now compared to before)

Now I’m just stuck and don’t know if he’s actually just really busy, and if he does really want to meet me.

Previously I’ve also realized that he sometimes makes promises that he doesn’t keep up with. Like for example, previously he said that he would take me out to a very nice restaurant and that I should be really excited for this (this never happened). I feel like one moment he is very into me and wants to meet me, but when it actually comes close to it, he bails.

Is this typical Taurus male behavior? He also has ADHD if this affects the situation in any way. Also, does he actually want to meet me, or is it just some fantasy or something?

I’m also contemplating if I should send him a message basically just asking if he wants to meet me or not, because I don’t like waiting or playing game or whatever