State of Confusion

I'm so confused after my husband's betrayal. We would sit and talk about our issues, I'd ask what we both needed to work on and I thought things were good-i believed we were turning a page.

I feel as though he is minimizing the fact that it wasn't physical, but an emotional affair hurts too. Besides, he could by lying about the extent of the relationship as well. I don't want to throw away 19 years, but I don't know how to move past this, trust him or believe anything he says.