Wits relationships

Am I alone hating idea of Jasnah x Hoid relationship?

To give context, I have finished part one of Rhythm of War today. In this section, there is a hint of being something more between Jasnah and Hoid during a meeting. Feeling unnerved I jumped to reddit finding that a romantic relationship between them is confirmed in chapter 99. And I must say I hate this decision.

This feels to me as if Gandalf from lotr dated someone. [If something like that is mentioned somewhere in Silmarillion, please don't tell me :) ]. Don't do this to Cosmere Gandalf.

I never really cared for Jasnah feeling cold to me, even pragmatism has a line, but she is not the problem, it would feel weird to me if he dated anyone. I always loved Hoid, maybe my favorite character in Cosmere. This destroys the concept of his character for me a little bit. For me it doesn't make sense from the character's perspective, doesn't feel like him, lessening the mystery of his character, of him being something different, an interesting abstract tool of the author. It also gives me a weird vibe 10 000 years or who knows how old character dating 35 old. Will it get better? Even though I can't imagine how it could. Maybe I am being a little childish in this and maybe I will change my mind. But it surprised myself how much it bothers me and how much it lessens the excitement for future books.

This is reposted, sorry if the previous title was spoilery.