I need guidnance 😥

My best friend and I love each other. And he always reassures me I'm never getting rid of him and that I am his favorite person and hold the most space in his heart. So we have what it takes. The problem is...he's going through a lot of self...reflection? He's been alone a long time. He's dealing with an episode of heavy depression right now. He doesn't know if he is ready for a commitment yet and says he needs to work on himself before he can be with someone, but he's not going anywhere and made the promise to never leave me.

My question is, what kind of spell would I use in this situation to help him? It's truly breaking my heart to see him struggle with this.