Don't be angry at players

Hello. There have been a lot of posts made about grandma after the recent update. Having read some of those, I am a bit terrified of playing Sky. It feels like a lot of people are forgetting that we are all in this together, but people are different, so everyone will try to deal with it in their own way. Personally, I didnt knew what shared spaces did at grandma until ~3 weeks ago. Always wondered what those angry posts about people not going to shared spaces were about. Now, because I am a little bit anxious about being posted to this subreddit with people insulting me, there is wonder why so many want everyone to be active at grandma. I never really liked how flashy the lights in Sky were, so having my whole screen being just bright, flying around screen particles hurt my eyes. When there is more than two people active it becomes very pushy and I'm getting easily overwhelmed by trying to "fight" with 3 different people over one bun because everyone wants to light it up. I used to have Sky open in the background and listen to sounds skykids make, but now people often don't make any sounds or even disappear for one reason or another. Grandma feels much more like battlefield after the update, and trying to keep up with community only makes it worse. I also can't help but think about people that are just kids, teenagers or adults who don't have time to grind and go to grandma and turtle because it's the only way they can consistently get candles by just having the game opened in the background, just like I often did, and many others probably too. The grey skykids you see there are rarely the same people, so I don't think it's reasonable to be angry at them and posting them on reddit just to show how much you don't like them. And after all, those angry feelings are because of the update, which isn't their fault at all. The devs made it happen, not the community. If people will attack each other for something that isn't their fault, the community will only be torn apart, with devs still taking away all the options to easily earn candles. I know it's easier to be angry at people in the moment, because being angry at thatgamecompany is like screaming into the void, but at least that void might make some good changes in the future, not the players