Sikh guy doesn’t bows down in-front of Granth sahib ji ???

I am sharing this story from a throwaway account.

I know a guy , he is a sikh . He does path and goes to gurudwara on daily basis .

Few days ago , he insisted that i should accompany him to gurudwara as well, to which i did.

At gurudwara i noticed that he doesn’t goes to the main area where guru Granth sahib ji is recited by granthi . He sits nearby entrance of main hall ,hears kirtan and gurbani , bows there at his sitting position only and goes back . Doesn’t take kada parshad as well.

I find this thing very weird , i insisted him to at-least go in front of guru granth sahib ji and bow in front of him as he is like our parent .

To which he replied that , “ its the same thing if i bow from far away or at the main recitation area and second thing that there is crowd “ . I told that there is no crowd at all , then he said he doesn’t like going to the front and same thing is done by his family members.

Then I asked , “ why don’t you take kada prashad ?” . He said , “ its very oily “ .

Pls note - he eats McDonald burgers every other day.

After half an hour , his mother called up . I told her , “ aunty ji , eh baba ji age matha nahi tekda. “ To Aunty replied , “ beta koi gal nahi , iko gal hai “

I was stunned by all this …. Now i am wondering that isn’t this beadbi of our guru maharaj ??

TLDR - guy goes to gurudwara but doesn’t bows down in front of guru granth sahib ji and does not take parshad. His family does the same thing as well.