Where should I move within the US?

My boyfriend and I (late 20s) are looking to move out of Chicago to a place that better suits our lifestyle and interests as neither of us are big drinkers and we love the outdoors (running, hiking, etc) and sunshine (or at least just not 6 months of winter).

We like the idea of the Carolinas, Charlotte specifically, as we work in finance and there are many jobs for that. It also seems like a great place to settle down and eventually have a family (though we’re in no rush for this). Not to mention better weather and access to mountains/ beach. However, we’re wondering how often we would actually get to these sites.

The other place on our list is California (San Diego or Newport Beach). Vastly different and way higher cost of living. Also quite far from our families who reside in the Midwest. However, the scenery and access to nature would be right outside our doorstep and we believe the higher costs could be worth it.

Curious to hear thoughts from those of you who live/have lived in these places. We’re also open to other places if you have other ideas. Thanks!