Adult birthday party location ideas

Hi all,

I'd like to celebrate my birthday late Feb/early March. 10+ people mostly women. I'd like a place/bar that is lively so we could dance/mingle/or a place that has activities so we are not tied to the table. Any ideas of what this might be? I'm in my 40s if it matters. Extra points If the place is a bit upscale since I'd like to dress up.

I recently came across the Van Ryder rooftop bar but not sure if it's "lively" enough.

I thought of 2Row but it's a bit too casual for what I would like.

Thanks!