Coping with being told what to do?

I hear this a Sag/Fire thing...I have such a hard time being told what to do. I love learning. I hate rules. I make my own decisions, even if they're bad for me! But I think my need for total freedom is holding me back in school and work. I'm not subordinate or anything, it's just like a feeling in my heart and belly, ya know? Just wondering if anyone else in a similar boat.