Is this just because he expects me to be comfortable to jump in with my preference or is it that he expects me to mold into his personality? Do all sag men talk like this?

Is this just because he expects me to be comfortable to blurt my preference or is it that he expects me to mold into his personality? Do all sag men talk like this? He tells me what he wants his future to look like, but he doesn't ask my preference (unless its a sexual preference). If /when, I say something like liking a certain food, he says I don't eat that. Instead of just saying, more for you. It's not a big deal but im trying to see if this means anything.