Am I overreacting?

I’ve been texting this man for 4 months! Ok, seriously have started to like him and develop real feelings for him, the problem is he doesn’t have a vehicle and he lives 3 hours away. We both agreed to keep it simple and to not rush things. We’re both in college and are in the middle of winter break right now, so he texts me one day and asks me to come see him since he knows that we both have free time right now. Okay, this morning I was supposed to make the drive, however, it started snowing and I didn’t feel confident to make the drive when I was unsure if the conditions would get worst. I let him know and these were our text exchanges.

Me: Hey, so it’s been snowing here all morning and the roads are looking a little slippery. I’d just rather not make the drive when I’m not sure if the conditions will get worse. I hope you understand, I’m totally down to reschedule! Even if tomorrow was better I’d feel better about making the drive or even at some point next week.

Him: gotcha I totally understand, we wouldn’t want anything bad to happen.

Me: yeah sorry about that, thanks for understanding!

Him: of course.

Me: Okay! I’m totally down to reschedule if we can find some time we’re both free:)

Him: oh yeah we definitely need to!

I don’t know I just feel that there’s no effort on his part. The least he could do is say he’s busy this week or next and we can figure something out later but he is giving NOTHING. So, I’ve come to Reddit to ask if I should just ghost him and be done with it or what else? My friends all say it’s time to ghost and I shouldn’t be begging a man to make time for me. I think they’re right but just hurts because I’ve actually started to develop feelings. Oh well