No passion in relationship / platonic

Hello!

Over the years with my significant other our love has turned into more “companionate” love. She is my best friend. We are EXTREMELY compatible. Emotionally I’ve never felt closer to a human being and feel so safe,warm and comfortable. But our sexual relationship and passion have been pretty non existent past couple of years. I got into a rabbit hole on google and Reddit and many things say you need passion in a relationship for it to work. We feel less like a romantic partnership in the sexual aspect but in a deeper emotional compatibility we hit a 10/10. All these threads and posts of people breaking up their passionless relationship and how they wish they did it sooner is severely triggering. I feel like our relationship is doomed because it’s not deemed “right” and everyone says it will fail.

I have rocd, been diagnosed I’ve always struggled in romantic relationships.

Can anyone relate? Do you and your lover feel more like friends? I’m not looking for reassurance. Just my rocd is flaring hard core and wanted to know I’m not alone. I do not want to leave my relationship even tho it lacks in passion ( and always kinda has a bit)

We are also both female (if that’s relevant)