hate when people call everyone a narcissist

narcissist is less than 10 percent of the population, yes alot of people have traits but its rare to run into a full blown narcissist. The ex or friend wasnt a narcissist, you was just a pushover that was taking advantage of. most people i know that go around calling people narcissist are easy to take advantage of. im always asking them why you keep going out your way for these people that dont like you. its because they are pushovers, not because they keep running into narcissists