Should I go through with a passport appointment?

I live in a very blue city, gender marker and name change has been done on all documents (but never renewed my passport so it has old gender marker). I pass very well so I’m hesitant to even get a passport with the F designation because I have a full beard. Could I even get a F passport with all my documents saying M? My BC says “Male” as sex. Not sure what I should do, traveling out of the country in April.