Breast Reduction

Has anyone ever gotten a breast reduction and it looked weird if you have PCOS belly? I'm 5'9, weight about 220 LBS and wear a 40G bra size. I'm considering a breast reduction in the summer but the surgeon told me I had to lose some weight or my recovery won't go well. He said he can do the surgery but to try and lose the weight or he can also do a tummy tuck. I don't have kids and don't plan on having kids. I wear a size 16/18 and I don't think I'm that big because of my height.

I guess it upset me that he told me to consider a tummy tuck since I don't think I really need one.
My questions are, if you did get a reduction did you belly stick out too much and look weird? Did you get a reduction and gain it back? Was you recovery difficult?

If you have any advice on weight lose that would be great too!

TIA