Lapitin ng may issue sa buhay.

You got it right. Every guy I've matched with on dating apps or talked to, they all have issues in their lives. Don't get me wrong, I'm ready to listen to them, and I actually appreciate them sharing with me. But I came from a long-term relationship, 9 years with my ex, and for most of those years, I was the one handling his problems. Then, with the guys I've talked to, or even my ex, if I have a problem, they just ignore it. It's always their problems that need to be the focus. When will I find someone who will listen to me? I want to be a girlfriend, but I always end up being the boyfriend.