Experiences of binary trans ppl discriminating against you?

For me it's last Xmas. A binary trans woman joined us. I was walking with her alone & confessed that I was made uncomfortable by being given feminising gifts; gifts that heteronormative ppl like my family would only give 2 ppl whom they perceive as women (I'm AFAB NB). She told me "well, you HAVE to appreciate it. They bought it for you." Meanwhile, she told me horror stories about her family giving her gifts in an attempt to masculinise her. How about y'all?