Does your narc (mine is covert) engage in withholding behaviors to punish you?

Does your narc (mine is covert) engage in withholding behaviors to punish you? Mine does.

He withholds time, attention, affection, and compliments that he so freely gives to others, especially his coworkers and sister.

CN also loves to withhold touch, sex, companionship, and even sleeping in the same bed. We've been married for 20 years. He managed to somehow grit his teeth through weekly sex for the first year, but the moment we lived in the same house, regular sex ended. He'd avoid the bedroom by staying up super late. He'd call me a "dirty whore" if I suggested we had sex monthly; that was too much for him. Within a couple of years, he demanded separate rooms.

It was like being married to an angry roommate who hates you and avoids you.