Why am I being punished for playing Ranked?

Every 3 games, it's like a lottery of madness! We search, get booted, restart, and bam! -30 SR and a 3 minute suspension. Then, there's the PS4 players (why is this relic allowed to play?) whose game crashes mid game like a clumsy elephant on ice. We lose, big time. Promised no SR loss, but surprise! SR loss. Win a game? Then get Highrise Control, with the enemy team on an crimson-hot win streak abusing the spawns (I'm getting low golds on my team and they're complaining about convert sneakers).

I genuinely think that the only way to play ranked is to get a scuf or zen and pair it with a vpn. Cus it seems like good ping, map knowledge and just basic recoil control can only take you so far.

I'm willing to learn and get better but what's the actual point if people are just gonna cheat and the devs only listen if you talk in sign language.