Please help me i don't know what to do

I may not belong in this sub as I am the father. But my wife miscarried at 6 weeks and passed the baby today. I saved it as best I could in accordance with what I found online. What do I do with him/her? My baby is just sitting on ice and no hospital will tell me anything other than throw my child in the trash. Is this normal? It feels so wrong. Everything just feels wrong.