genuine question: where do you find femmes?

im 18f, def a late bloomer. starting to come to terms with my sexuality. i would say i'm more on the masc side than the femme side. i'm looking for other femme wlw (lesbian, bi, pan idc) but i don't even know where to start.

any girls i've had crushes on or thought were attractive have all been straight.... femme girls i've met who aren't straight (there was only one) was already in a relationship....... what am i doing wrong? how can i find myself a girl?

any advice would be appreciated. <3