does anyone else think that gays will always have to settle for less in relationships?

its already next to impossible for most gays to find love/commitment. and with there being barely any visible gays around, do u think we will just have to settle with whoever comes our way just so we don’t end up alone? something like ‘beggars can’t be choosers’

ex.- im attracted to men who r tall muscular n bearded (physical aspects, kinda str8 passing) but i have never, not once seen/known/heard of such a man who’s into men(or is looking for a man to be in a relationship with). so now my only option left is to be with a man whom i don’t find physically attractive

[this has nothing to do with “beauty standards“. its about personal preferences that all of us have]