Navigating jewish identity from an interfaith background in a non-jewish community

Heya

I come from an interfaith background—my mother is Christian, and my father is reform Jewish. i've been raised with both, celebrate the holidays from both and I identify myself mostly Jewish.
but living in an area without a Jewish community has left me feeling isolated. I'm concerned about not being 'Jewish enough' especially since i haven't had a traditional bar mitzvah rural area etc i know all of this comes from a place of insecurity but thats why i would appreciate hearing other peoples experiences who have been in similar situations or hopefully i can get some sense of community here :)

Thanks for any help