Just wanted to share a positive post
Met this creature on Hinge. Chatted for 24 hours. Met the following day and had the best sex of my life not cause of the physical bond but the emotional bond we built. After age 30, the quality and intent of dating and chats changes a lot. We both knew exactly what we were looking for and found it all in each other. She lived a little far but that didn't stop me from burning 3 litres of fuel to meet her daily morning for a morning walk nor did it stop her from travelling 15kms each way for an evening gym session on alternate days. Within 15 days of matching we told both parents about each other and i took a flight to Bombay to meet her parents and celebrate her birthday. We had a lot of struggles to overcome cos she is a divorcee and i still had a lot of trauma from my childhood and past toxic relationships. We worked through it all , learnt a lot, grew together and supported each other through a lot of ups and downs in the last 3+ years.
We're engaged and ready to marry but her job took her overseas and yet, this is how she still keeps me so looped in to all the small decisions as she gets ready for a party today, far away from me.
It is impossible to love her more than i already do but I'm still trying cos this woman makes me feel so loved and wanted that she's wiped out most of my trauma and erased my inferiority complex.
Just goes to show, not all online love stories end like a disaster. I had to go through 300 matches before i finally found her. Her, the lucky idiot, found me as her 3rd match on Hinge and we uninstalled Hinge together. Stay focused first on what you're looking for and you'll definitely get it. Pity the ones who show off about multiple matches. All you need is one good match. Then you both work hard to make it the perfect match.
Good luck kids. God bless us all. Happy new year in advance.
Met this creature on Hinge. Chatted for 24 hours. Met the following day and had the best sex of my life not cause of the physical bond but the emotional bond we built. After age 30, the quality and intent of dating and chats changes a lot. We both knew exactly what we were looking for and found it all in each other. She lived a little far but that didn't stop me from burning 3 litres of fuel to meet her daily morning for a morning walk nor did it stop her from travelling 15kms each way for an evening gym session on alternate days. Within 15 days of matching we told both parents about each other and i took a flight to Bombay to meet her parents and celebrate her birthday. We had a lot of struggles to overcome cos she is a divorcee and i still had a lot of trauma from my childhood and past toxic relationships. We worked through it all , learnt a lot, grew together and supported each other through a lot of ups and downs in the last 3+ years.
We're engaged and ready to marry but her job took her overseas and yet, this is how she still keeps me so looped in to all the small decisions as she gets ready for a party today, far away from me.
It is impossible to love her more than i already do but I'm still trying cos this woman makes me feel so loved and wanted that she's wiped out most of my trauma and erased my inferiority complex.
Just goes to show, not all online love stories end like a disaster. I had to go through 300 matches before i finally found her. Her, the lucky idiot, found me as her 3rd match on Hinge and we uninstalled Hinge together. Stay focused first on what you're looking for and you'll definitely get it. Pity the ones who show off about multiple matches. All you need is one good match. Then you both work hard to make it the perfect match.
Good luck kids. God bless us all. Happy new year in advance.