hocd is literaly the same symptoms as being gay

This is really stressing me out because it seems like you can literally have every symptom of being gay such as 'false' atraction, 'false' arousal, 'false' crushes, loss of atraction to the opposite gender and literally so many more things.

This is so stressfull to me as surly it would be so easy for someone who is acutally gay to just fall under the hocd category- they just realised it so they get anxiety, wich is a symptom of hocd, they might lose this anxiety when they begin to accept its truth and loss of anxiety is allso a smyptom of hocd. They would then feel atraction to the same gender? same as hocd and develop crushes etc and lose atraction to the oposite gender?

literaly feels like hocd has every symptom of being gay, and i feel like if i had realised i was actaully gay and i was gay, i would allso get the symptoms of hocd like anxiety and stuff so how can you distinguish them?