Is it safe to fly over Russia right now?

I need help working out the safest flightroute. I am based in the UK and am planning to take a trip to visit friends in Vietnam over Easter 2025 along with my husband and 3 children under 5yrs. We will travel from LHR to HAN and looking at the routes through flightroutes.com a direct flight with Vietnam Airlines will take us out across Belarus, across western Russia and over Kazakhstan.

Given what happened with MH17 and the recent Azerbaijani flight downed by Russian AA fire, I am very scared about flying my children over anywhere than Ukrainian drones and Russian AA guns are active. The main alternative that would avoid Russia would be doing a stop in Dubai but that would have us fly over Syria and Iran who have also shot down civilian passenger jets very recently. I looked at the risk as listed on safe airspace.net which lists Russian airspace as safer than Iranian but the info seems to be from October and so is out of date by now.

And so I need your advice. Would you put your 3 little children on either of these flights paths? Am I being silly? I don't fly often or know much about flying generally or the military capabilities involved but obviously there is some risk for planes getting mistakenly shot down. We need to book something soon or make the decision to postpone. Any and all advice and information welcome. Also it's my first time posting on Reddit so sorry for any mistakes I have made.