Conflicted to get married and move out because of wanting to save up for longer

Basically what the title says. I live in one of the most expensive places in the country (silicon valley). Rent is not nice at all. A decent 1bed apartment runs you 3k here. I just started my career, I’m young 20s, I get paid well and have a lot in savings. This shouldn’t be coming up as a stressor/blocker to moving on in life and getting married to my partner but I wish I didn’t have to move out from my family home (free) and start paying rent even though we’d be splitting it 50/50. I keep thinking/wishing I had a few more years to fatten up my savings so that I could be better positioned to buy a home rather than keep paying rent for several years. Not to mention I have a good life living at home too. Any words of wisdom?