Long time 5 questioning everything (personality related) again

Hi, it's been quite some time I've researched enneagram and the personality stuff together but it drags me back every time but now with a twist. Usually I simply just confirm my type, check the memes and move on. Well, not this time as you can assume from me making this post.

I've read number of posts and webpages about E9 and it actually resonated with me. Maybe I got it wrong all that time ago because 9s are commonly misstyped as 5s and since 5 clicked instantly I didn't have to research further and that may have been a mistake. I would assume that 5w6 would know perfectly who they are never doubt it (ironic considering the wing) therefore I started to doubt myself. Am I the misstype? Was my research false? I don't know. It might be just different wing or nothing at all and I'm playing with myself (no, not the way you think you dirty animal).

While I've read a lot of discussions on this topic (and even posted one myself questioning this exact scenario) I get more and more confused because I feel like I relate to many point of both (possible tritype or something). Where do I draw the line? I want to know what silly goofy little number I am but it's so difficult when I can't really decide what my trauma is. And don't get me started on instinctual variants, lol.

Has anyone also been through this process? How have you managed to make up your mind? Or do any of you have any advice of what to read, what to ask or anything that will help me settle this once and for all? 5w6, 5w4, 9w11 9w8 or anything else? Have I "changed"?

I'm appreciating every response

Thanks in advance (hope this is the last time I'm making this thread)