Invasions kinda suck (for the invader)

Here I wait about 1 hour per invasion (with cross region on), and finally get to invade. Then I get absolutely beaten up by 3 people each with significantly more flasks and sharp sticks than me. And of course the cherry on top, the blue guy does the “point downward” emote. What did I do that upset you that much?? Before you tell me to go to the arena if I want a fair fight, (which you probably already did) I would like to point out that the arena has absolutely no reward whatsoever aside from your little banner turning yellow. Sure, I’m probably never going to use the rune arks because I MIGHT NEED THEM SOME DAY, but getting something feels better than getting nothing. Also why do we have to wait hours to invade people? Honestly, if it were a short wait I wouldn’t be upset at all.