My previously cheating spouse just gave me a whole elaborate story for why he has to go to work early but also why he will be there late.. lol

I'm not divorcing yet. I'm waiting to do the drama until our kid is away at college in a few years.

I really don't care anymore if he cheats, or tries to cheat anyways. My spouse has serious issues sexually that he won't address with a doctor, so we aren't intimate anyways. It's been a couple years again, last time I told him I wouldn't be with him until he saw a doctor. He hasn't dealt with it yet.. lol We have good health insurance, so he has no excuse. I even made one appointment for him, but, he was too embarrassed to bring up the issue.

Anyhow, so he does shift work, two weeks on afternoons and two weeks on days. Usually, he would be working 2-11 today. He's a machinist, so he can't work a different time because somebody else will be using his machine. The start times are very rigid because otherwise you don't have a machine available to work.

So he just gave me this whole song and dance about why he has to go in early because they're unplugging the refrigerators to rewire something but how he's going to run the forklift while they do that. But, even though they aren't on overtime, he's got to go in early and stay until his regular time. Also, for some reason he has to take his Mustang GT even though he usually commutes in my car so he doesn't ruin his. Also, his phone isn't working so he might have to shut it off.. lol

Does this man think I was born yesterday? Additionally, I've told him repeatedly that we aren't reconciled and that I'll be filing for divorce when our kid is 18. I've told him that I'll never trust him again anyways and I'd rather he just told me when he was off trying to sleep around.

It's just so insulting that he thinks I'm stupid enough to fall for that song and dance. It's an insult to both of us.

Like, dude couldn't even look at me while he told me this shit, he was looking at the wall while he told me this bundle of lies.. lol