Fear Thy Neighbor - does anyone else always side with the perpetrator?

I watch this show and always feel like the “victims” are horrible people. They are messy, loud, play music in the yard, etc. I would never escalate it to the level the perpetrators do, but I certainly feel their angst at the neighbors. The victims don’t deserve what they get of course, but they are definitely partly responsible. This show makes me so happy to live on 5 acres with no neighbors nearby.