Grace, Juanita and Gabby

So I'm watching the Grace and Juanita storyline play out and I have many thoughts. Some of this stems from Reddit post I've seen on this (I spoil things for myself SUE ME) and Gabby is kinda awful for how she handled this. I can be empathetic to the fact Gabby hasn't had the best luck with children and she has an opportunity to connect with the child she gave birth with. But quite frankly with her being the adult, as some point she should have faced the fact that while she gave birth to Grace that is simply not her child. She does not know that little girl at all really and I don't care how many "nature vs. nurture" arguments I hear. And if we really want to get into the uncomfortable conversation a lot of Gabbys resentment for Juanita (and the other child who doesn't speak) stems from the fact she's a fat child. That's also the beef the audience has with Juanita. She is performing like any quirky child actor and the hate that child gets is nuts. Shame on Gabby though, as an adult she should have know better on how to handle that.