I finally realise!
People have crushed on me in the past, likely currently, but many of them are shy like me 😮 so they never say anything. They assume that I will reach out to them, but I don't because I'm just as shy. I come off as more reserved so I never get to know them, but they assume I'll reach out because I try to come off as chatty. They think I'm chatty 😭 omfg nooooo