Having kids is no longer ideal

My fellow Cebuanos, am I alone in this ordeal. Daghan kug friends nga miserable sa ilang life because nag ka anak sila etc. naa sad uban perfect kaayo tan awn sa socmed. So many relatives and friends want me and my SO out to have kids. I personally don’t think it’s ideal anymore. Kung nag lisod ta karon sa atong panahon unsa nalang kaha ang 1 or 2 generations from now. Their lives might suck. Sa 80s man gud daw maong palabi silag panganak kay barato pa tanan. Karon daghan ko nailhan nag family in a single bedroom apartment or boarding house. Edit: Content here is to stop people from judging you and pressure you because “ you’re being selfish” when you don’t have kids To those people saying nga akong gi invalidate akung friends saying Sila man ang nag ingon nako nga nag lisud Lila so kamo sad nag assume sad mo nga I am posting without knowing from them jud!