I love asking why people love their partner/spouse
A bit of a forward question, but so far it’s always been well received.
You know those couples that you don’t understand how them two specifically are together? That’s what started this trend of me asking.
I see their eyes light up. “Why do you like Margaret” or “what drew you to Tim”
And they start going on - “what’s not to like? They’re funny, such a good person etc…”
It really says something about people, you get to know them a little bit better and they get to talk about something (someone) they love