Ex girlfriend connection

Ok so to start off I know this going to be a long to explain but I will do my best and be detailed as possible so everyone can understand. I know everyone will have different opinions or answers. Or not sure if anyone has had a similar experience with what I am going through? But I would gladly appreciate if anyone can give me insightful information. No guessing or speculation. Everything happens for a reason or people do things for a reason.

So my ex girlfriend dumped me 5 months ago. And it's been a tough road. It's been very hard and of course I haven't been able to let go or move on. I've been struggling day and night to get over her. But unfortunately I just don't have this willpower or superpower to forget my ex overnight like she did. But after the break up, I never said one word to my ex girlfriend nothing!! I didn't chase her or contact her or email her or harrass her. I left her alone and respected her wishes, despite me knowing every part of my body wanted to message her and tell her I still love her. But I knee if I did, I would just keep giving her power over me so I stayed silent.

But within that time she dumped me, my ex was and still is till this day posting subliminal messages about me on her Tik Tok still. But after 3 months of dumping me, I decided to return her phone without her asking for it. The story behind the phone is, the day my ex dumped me the very same day. She reported it lost/stolen when she knew all she had to do was ask back for it. But unfortunately she decided to block me and erase me off everything immediately. Vemno, PlayStation Network, Snapchat, Tik Tok. And so after all that time after 3 months she never said one word about the phone or her PS5 she said I can keep when she dumped me by the way. But when I went to return her phone cause I knew it was the right thing to do, she emailed me the next day, just immediately demanding her PS5 back. She didn't even say anything about the break up or what she did wrong. She just completely ignored me and everything that happened and was solely focused on the PS5. Then a week later after she emailed me again saying I was being petty because I didn't get what I wanted from her? Which I don't understand? Because I never asked her for anything and left her alone. She's the one that broke no contact and demanded her PS5. She said she has been super gracious with me? Again she was shit talking to me on her Tik Tok prior to that. And that she is done being nice with me? Even during all that I was paying her cell phone bill and she never once said thank you.

After that, she got more cruel with her Tik Tok reposts. Directing more hurtful jabs, reposting how free she was and happy she dumped me. It's hard to explain. When you dated someone for 6 years you just know them and their behavior. You know when something is being directed towards you or someone is trying to belittle you and dehumanize you and make themselves look like the good guy. So she never said another word or email to me. Then on December 5th she went to the Iheart concert in Rosemont theatre in IL. And 5 days later after that concert, her grandpa started to follow me on Tik Tok?

The reason I find this so odd and strange because the day my ex dumped me. Her sister blocked me and her grandpa unfriended me. Months passed by and they never said a word to me or even bothered to check up on me. Then out of nowhere he followed me. Again I didn't seek him out. He sought me out on Tik Tok. My account was never private so he didn't need to follow me at all. As he followed me, he followed up with nudging me message. I replied back to him, and I told him I was sorry with everything that happened and that I loved him and his wife like my family. Then I said to him, I'm sorry I failed you and that I truly loved his granddaughter my ex very much. I left him my phone number In case he ever needed anything. And two days after that message, my ex's Mom viewed my Tik Tok profile? In the past 5 months not even my ex's Mom has ever checked my Tik Tok account NEVER!!! Then I saw her grandpa read my messages and never said a word back to me. Two weeks passed by and on Christmas I messaged him saying Merry Christmas and to give his wife a hug for me, and the dogs and my cats. He replied back and said" Merry Christmas to you to" that's all he said.

I do post about my ex but nothing stupid or cruel. I just post videos of how much I miss her and love her still till this day. And her grandpa always views my Tik Tok posts but he will never unfriend me? So the reason I am posting this is because I have had relationships and never have I had someone's family member ever add me back after months or even years. I know for a fact out of all the people my ex girlfriend has dated, they never bothered with them? So not sure if anyone has had an experience like this? Or something similar? But it's definitely questionable and I always have believed that everything is for a reason. I know he didn't do it intentionally. So that's why I am here asking about this.

So please be respectful and don't start bashing me or saying I am overthinking it. Truthfully I'm not. It's the actions from before and to now today. Someone to add someone's ex boyfriend on Tik Tok? Even when my ex has completely ignored me and ghosted me and treats me like her enemy and makes me the villain.