Sapphic Dating Advice?

(Copy from r/actuallesbians post. It was having issues sharing it on mobile) What is the culture? Yes I know odd question, but I know I need to work on self especially since after break up (first lesbian relationship) several months ago.That hasn't stop me from thinking ahead or worrying. Which gives me mild panic since they just seem so fast ,and I fell hard before being a woman and obviously fall harder now. Is it actually common for them to go through emotions that quick? Like I'm afraid/feel like rushing if I say "I love you" at the 3 month mark. Any advice would be nice

I guess to add to this, I have common sense obviously, but anything that I might be known for dating men since that is a thing now.

(Woo useless girl at dating, let's go!)

Edit: Below - reworded instead of my tired rambling.

Um basically, I pretty sure I know the common woes/stuff to look out of dating, but I'm new to dating as woman in general and even clueless in wlw dating. So I'll take any advice to stay safe or to look out more.

Also, what is a typical thing to see in a relationship. For example, I normally see express love feelings around 3 month mark, but does that seem common for wlw relationship? That seems rushed or am I just reserved?