What is your bachata ick?

What is your bachata ick? what gives you the ick when in a bachata context?

for me it’s when the lead has no self awareness and keeps on bumping into other people. 😭 once is ok, but more than 3 times just gives me ick, it’s like where did your spatial awareness go! what’s weird is that these lead are good dancers sometimes but I don’t know why they go bumper cars mode when there’s sufficient space on the dance floor.

My other big ick is grubby dirty hands. Not to be confused with sweaty hands which I understand… but the feeling of holding someone with grimy dirty hands when dancing is just gross. It gives me the biggest ick 🥲 I guess it comes down to basic hygiene.

Other one which kind of bugs me is unkempt fingernails that dig into me when gripping too hard. 🤷 Am I the only one or am i being too picky?

Does anyone else get any bachata icks?