Can dudes who sexualise you ever be good partners?

Basically this. Keep trying to date and even tho Im hypersexual and horny af. The minute a dude starts talking about sex, I get the ick. This is completely new but Im assuming its my brain trying to stop me getting used for sex, but it sucks for trying to get laid when the minute they go sexual or make a comment about eating ass I'm gagging and not in the fun way I wanna be