Advice regarding fetlife verification and diy milking

Hello so I was redirected from another group to go to fetlife for diy vacuum pump milker (think seriouskits) guidance. One question I have is do I need to be verified for fetlife people to see and comment on my post, I do not want to disclose personal info in case of a data breach. 2) what other communities (that are active) have a large group of people who build their own milkers that can give me technical guidance on what I need to buy? Does this community have a lot of diy milker people?