Do they enjoy the suffering they cause? (on DA subreddit, a meme that is very explicit)

https://preview.redd.it/vxxuih2d4l7e1.jpg?width=1284&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=6d3d19087b38b66ac1dba48880b4818af5f77ec1

This meme was just posted on the avoidant subreddit. hey treat us like shit and come back to breadcrumb us and are surprised that we're happy to talk to them because they leave the relationship at its highest intensity since they hate intimacy?

What the fuck? Is it actually fun for them to do that?