Have you guys seen people romanticizing being the "weird kid" on TikTok and Instagram?

I understand that it may be a coping mechanism to some to embrace the label, however it upsets me to watch people gatekeep and/or act like being a weird kid is cute. Genuinely, growing up as the outcast ruined my life. I grew up as the "weird sibling", the "strange girl" and i had to sit on the "friendship bench" when i was little. In NO way is being a weird kid cute. It was the worst in middle+high school aswell. Sorry if this is too harsh.