I've built an echo chamber around myself without men

I recently discovered that I've created an echo chamber of people that aren't men. All of my relations are with women or non-binary (not men). All of the people I seek advice from aren't men. I've somehow curated an echo chamber absent of men. And I don't hate men. But all of the men I've been introduced to have just been meh, bothersome or complaining about having it harder than everybody else. Or they've been outright nasty, manipulative and condescending. I've just not found anyone worth my time. I have brothers, and I do speak with them, but they're on a spectrum from young (21) to immature (30). I'm no contact with both my biological and adoptive father. I've also somehow curated algorithms that confirm that evil, dumb men are everywhere, and good men are few and far between, or simply silent. I don't like being biased like this. I want to know that there's men out there who doesn't look the other way, who's educated and participates. I'm tired of getting disappointed by your Gaimans and the like. The Speech Professor, Green Flag Guy, Wisecrack, Daniel Sloss and Neil Degrass Tyson can't be the only men out there. Where's the everyman who doesn't shit talk their post partum wife, or starts running marathons when the kids are 6 months and two?

I don't want to force it, but I don't want to believe that this isn't an echo chamber. I really hope that it isn't. Please share your good-man stories. Try to show me that there's more out there. Try to prove that it's an echo chamber.

Edit: tone markers or the like are encouraged. Emojis have become ambiguous to me, so clarifying your tone helps immensely.

Edit: Thank you all for being so candid and civil. It's a really nice space we've created here. Personally I feel very welcomed and safe, and I really enjoy having this discussion with you all.