Dating women with high sex drives

Hi all, I’m recently single again (40F) and on the apps for friends and hopefully a relationship because I’m new to the area. However, I’m having trouble meeting guys who continue to act like they actually LIKE me after it’s known I like sex.

This is not an OF plug and plz do not dm me to hook up-not interested!

I’ve always had a high drive. I also like raunchy humor and I’ve always been “one of the guys.” I hear my guy friends complain all the time about women not wanting intimacy or being prudish so I should come with a little bonus, right? Wrong.

I can be having fantastic conversation and dates with a guy and as soon as it’s known I’m highly sexual that’s all the relationship becomes. Even those proclaiming they want a LTR with an actual partner and me also being up front. Im not poly-not an option, I’ve tried open/enm/everything and while swinging can be fun I don’t want an open or poly relationship and put that as a deal breaker.

I’m a professional with kids and too exhausted by life to keep going through casual relationships. Just the repeated same conversations, same stuff gets old. I want someone that I can cook for and who will watch creepy movies either me and travel the world and do wild crazy things together with trust and building a life. Not just 2 am “what’s up?”

But every.single.time. the conversation only becomes about sex around date 2-3 and they stop caring about me as a person and only focus on that unless they’re prudish and call me a slut and run off lol. So from a male perspective, how can I word my profile or just go about avoiding this? Should I just not allow sex talk for a few months (ugh)? I try to bring it back around-hey let’s go to a game or watch a movie or talk about this book we both read but it’s like herding cats in that conversation. Most then try to get me to agree to group sex before we’ve even gotten to having sex ourselves. Sample size-over a dozen. All professionals or men my age who seem to have stable lives.

Tl;dr-how to word profile other than the usual profile details or tell men that I’m more than a booty call? Even when I clearly put that’s not what I’m after? I feel this should be obvious but wow the dating scene has changed!