I'm driving 5 hours to met a woman I've been chatting with for 3 days
I'm 36 and she's 32. I've been on the dating apps and platforms for close to 2 years and had horrible success. Like very few matches and no meetups levels of success. Well, I joined a dating discord for people that play a specific MMO and this wonderful woman messaged me and we've been talking for the past 3 days. But WOW, I've never felt sparks like this before. She's actually from the NE but moving to the South, a few hours away from me. But right now she's still fixing up her new house before she moves from the old one. Anyways, she's at the new place doing some painting and a few other odds and ends this week before flying back, but we've just been hitting it off so well I offered to drive over so we can do a meet-up now and help her out for a day or two if she really wanted. She agreed so I'm headed over this Saturday.
I'm slightly worried this could be some weird scam but I don't really have much to be stolen, so it'd be a lot of effort for little gain on her part. But if this is real I also have other concerns..
Is this going too fast? I'm also a virgin so I'm already super anxious and the way she's talking, we'll be sharing a bed the one night I sleep over.
I don't know bros. There's a lot going on in such a short amount of time. I need some outside perspective.
Edit* - After reading the comments, I'll still be going, but I'm only taking myself and clothes. I'm also a mechanic, so I know how to make my car not crank since that'll be the most expensive thing. And I'll also get a hotel room for myself for the night, and give a friend my location and check in with him at the end of the day. I'll maybe update next week if I'm still alive. Thanks.