Men... let me hear your thoughts

I'm a single mom of two boys. My first sons father died and my second son father and I just couldn't work out because he just doesn't care for emotional support and i had my flaw which ill mention. What would you say my chances are of a man ever wanting to potentially date me.

  1. I have my bachelor's, currently working on masters
  2. I'm ok with 50/50 finances as long as household chores/ taking care of kids is 50/50, if not then 25/75 ( IN GENERAL, SUCH AS IF WE ALSO HAD KIDS TOGETHER AND OVERTIME IF MARRIED, I DONT EXPECT THIS RIGHT OFF THE BAT)
  3. I am military but will be out soon
  4. Own my home/car
  5. I'm not really materialistic and I'm not one to flaunt my achievements but I mean if you ask i don't mind telling
  6. I'm a homebody, I'm ok if we go out once in a while on a date to McDonald's. But if you order the fish fillet I might have to question you
  7. My current flaw is i struggle a bit with listening to a man due to trauma growing up but I am going to therapy and working on it
  8. I'm good with my finances, I try not to spoil my sons because I don't want them growing up thinking everything will just always come just because they ask
  9. I'm funny. I should be a comedian honestly atp
  10. My sons are my priority especially their education, physical and mental health and i can balance this whenever I start dating again

11... that's all on my Ted talk lmao

Edit : I'll be 28 next month