just broke up with my girlfriend i need some advice

hi me 29(m) and her 29(f) have been dating for almost two years. we have discussed about moving in together but after a while she kept postponing it and then later said maybe its better if i only live with you for two weeks of the month and the other two with my parents, which was kinda a shock for me..

i have talked about this with her and have also a few times raised concerns about her being too messy and not wanting to help with cleaning in the house only when i asked her to do so and help me out, she then has suggested several times to just hire a cleaner to do it for us when she moves in with which i disagreed since we can easily clean an appartment with two people for reference my mom cleans her own house which is way larger her mom does too..

whenever we had disagreements or arguments she would say things like why don't you just break up with me then, which i told her about before that i didn't like it that she said such things and that we can solve things as adults, nevertheless she said it again.

and after thinking about it for a while and talking with trusted people i thought it was best to call it quits