Should I continue the relationship? 20f

So I'm 20f currently working as a developer. I had been in relationship with my bf for past 3 years ( 1st yr college love). He is a very loving person and loves me with his life and i do the same. But the only problem we have between us is the way we see the world.

My bf is a typical old school. He doesn't believe in feminism. Nor does he loves the idea of women going to job. After I got job his behaviour towards me changed and he suspects me often even when i talk about my colleagues with him. He gets suspicious a lot and it often ends up in a fight. Whenever we have some romantic conversation he says me that he will ensure that I stay in house and take care of kids and his parents so that he will provide me with everything I want. I somehow convinced him to let me go job even after we get married. But still he is kind of old school. He sends me memes about making fun of dowries, and other misogynistic stuffs which I couldn't tolerate. The only reason this relationship sails is that he loves me with all his life and i love him the same.

Growing up I had a neglected dad and he took care of me like a dad. I am typically dark skinned and had got a lot of bullying it, but he is the first man to say that he loved my for my skin tone. And many more things like that. But we differ a lot in how we see the world. Kindly help. I don't know what to do.

Also we are also culturally different, I'm a south indian and he is from North most part of India. He is a Muslim and I'm a Hindu, He came to south to pursue engineering and that's how we met.